Been talking to a SB for about a month off of Secret Benefits, she lives 2.5 hrs away from me, but her mom is in KC and I am in Topeka (about an hour apart). She came up to visit mom so I was able to get an afternoon date with her, she was unable to go out at night because Mom wanted to hang out with her.

While she was hanging out with her mom, we were texting, I told her since I am in KC alone at the hotel, I am going to go to a Gentleman’s club. She states that her mom and dad wanted to go, but don’t have the money. So I volunteered to pay for all 4 of us, just so I can spend more time with her. So it was a first of ever meeting a Mom and Dad of a SB let alone going to a strip club and bar with them!

While we were at a bar after the club, a girl approached my SB and asked why the older guy is creeping on her (I am 48, she is 21). My SB tried to tell her that I am not, that we are dating, and that she was really into me. She was kissing me, grabbing me, and showing lots of PDA but this other girl would not accept that. So she got a bouncer involved trying to get me kicked out even though I brought her, mom, and dad with me. Another first.

So two firsts, meeting parents (let alone that quickly) and almost getting kicked out of a bar because I was the creepy old guy hanging with a young beautiful woman!🤷‍♂️