i’m in my 20’s and pretty certain i don’t want to have kids until my 30’s. i’ve had SDs before, but all except one were strictly online. i’ve been thinking… what are the odds a future SD would want to help me get pregnant and financially support the child? is that a thing some of them might be open to? i like to think i’m a good, trustworthy person. i’d want a SD i can also trust to be around children in case they want more involvement, so y’all can be sure i’ll be picky about that haha. i guess i’m just hoping this might be an option for me and wondering what you all think! have you (or anyone you know) done this?

edit: i meant a SD who also wants a kid. so, i’d still do typical SB stuff, but we’d have the mutual goal of having a child. probably an older guy who regrets not having kids, or one who wants a child without too many strings attached otherwise. i understand it’s an unusual thought to lots of people, and that’s okay!