I’ve (M35) met this girl (F22) that i like a lot. It was freestyle but she said she is familiar with the bowl and had a couple of medium term arrangements before. One platonic and one intimate. From get go, she said she didn’t do ppm and all she wanted was a little support here and there but that her bills are paid. We had three platonic dates so far. She was been a bit shy but otherwise super sweet and i feel when we make out she truly enjoys it. The little she has gotten from this so far has been all things I’ve volunteered. She has not asked for a single thing or hinted at anything once. We text almost all day every day. She is driving me absolutely nuts, being around her is almost intoxicating and i don’t even want to sleep with my wife 😅. I want her so much but i also dont want to pressure her. However i also cant keep this middle school dating thing forever and without losing my sanity. How long should i keep playing along? How much more time its appropriate before i walk away? She hasn’t asked for anything so i dont feel like i have any right to demand anything either. I’ve made my intentions, my interest and my willingness to support her very clear.

All my other sugar relationships have been from bad to Ok. But not once have i wanted to be with a woman this bad in the bowl.