I'm on the flip side of this as a single SD now vanilla GF who's married and became jealous for the 1st time in her life. (Husband has GFs and swinging and everything). We've been trying to figure out a fair balance on if we should be exclusive or not and how to approach if we do fuck/date others.

Similar to a SB I feel that at 39 and wealthy enough to retire and life comfortably I'm at my prime guy life and could settle down with a early 30's woman, white picket fence, get married, have kids, and be a stay at home dad all while providing, The wife wouldn't even have to work. I feel once I hit 40's it'll be much harder to snag women close to my age (not attracted to younger women) who don't have kids or have young ones that I could have a family with.

Please don't respond with lie and pretend you're exclusive, that's just fucked up on so many levels.