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I've been seeing a guy, 3 times, he feposited 1/2 my monthly allowanve and said, he has an etransfer limit. We had a great time last week but hasn't invite me out this week at all, yet I find he is chatting with other prospects..

What does that mean? Shall I keep seeing him??

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Fuck him - I am no ones cold pizza

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I just ended him, as I have a feeling this is not going to be a good fit for me

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Sorry, I am too smart to fall into your gaslighting Sr. I mean, he is lying, and sayi g he hid his part of the arrangement ... wait, no... you didn't etransfer the 2nd half, plusssss, you are still fucking hunting while saying you are Mono

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The reference number is altered :)

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He asked me out tomorrow, after he was messaging with 2 of my schoolmates today,

I just ended things

As much as I would like to say yes, I regret I won´t be able to. I find this is not going to work between us. I just have the feeling we may be into 2 different things.

Although It was lovely meeting you, the city is small, and who knows we may ran into each other one day, and you may want to say Hello I will be pleased to.

I wish you the very best finding what you are looking for.

Again, thanks so much!

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🌸 thank you! After the comments here I decided I need to stand up and I am really not taking his money as a gift/ he had to pay me.

3 dates plus 1 sleep o er with sex, he owed 1/2 of tbe allowance. So NO he won't get a cent back.

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I don't feel good taking the money :( but I blocked him already and I don't know how to give it back

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He says he wants his money back

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Right 4 days later, he is to busy interviewing others and still owi g 1/2 our arrangement

He says he wants the money back

He says he wants the money back

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He was talking to one classmate todsy saying he is monogamous, yet he accepted in our chat on whatsapp that he does what he wishes with his life meaning, interviewing girls

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This is an awesome idea, thanks for saving me for next time

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It has been 4 days, since he sent 1/2 allowance and he has been interviewing new girls meantime

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Do we ask for full monthly allowance up front?

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Thank you!!!

I just ended things, and wished him well.

(He invited me out tomorrow)As much as I would like to say yes, I regret I won´t be able to. I find this is not going to work between us. I just have the feeling we may be into 2 different things.

Although It was lovely meeting you, the city is small, and who knows we may ran into each other one day, and you may want to say Hello I will be pleased to.

I wish you the very best finding what you are looking for.

Again, thanks so much!

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Im sure he has the money but i dunno why he only transfered 1/2

I just whatsapped him this:

GEORGE has sent you $2,000.00 and the money has been automatically deposited into your bank account at TD Canada Trust.

Message:

This is daily e-trsf limt, this is 1st of 2 pmts.

Reference Number: C1njgutg34

Waiting to see what he replies, but I feel bad he is still looking and only sent 1/2

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Why to keep me as backup if he doesn't like me??

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Why would he still whatsapp me?

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I ended him. Before he uses my time :) I want my next daddy ;)

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It is ok. I understand there is etransfer limit. But ... where is the rest??? Days passed by, you are hunting others, but still owe me??

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Lovely reply!

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He said he wants his money back

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Hehehehe, I just pitty him. Anyone wants to donate him skme $$$???

To cover for his health issues? Back pain, gout, and erection issues???

I feel Ill give it all back $$$ and tell him, wish you good health

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When we had our first video chat, I asked, are you gonna see other girls? He said, yes. So last Weekend after seeing eachother for a month, he is like so you wanna have an arrangement? I said: well, you said you are looking for long term and connection, and you were seeing other girls, so I was hoping you'll make a desition. Before getting into an arrangement with you.

So he is like, ohhh but yeah, I said I will interview more girls, but I am not seeing anyone.

So, today my friend shows me who she is talking with and he offered her an arrangement, asking her to phone him. And I got confused, I thought we had an arrangement.

I am ok with them seeing more than myself. As long as he gives me my allowance and is honest. I am not here to baby sit him.

He now wants his money back.

I am confused.

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I feel sad, as I don't want to steal any money but how can I contact him back after I blocked and deleted?

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We have seen eachother for about a month, spent time gone on dates. Just got i timate last weekend. He mentioned he is looking for long term. Today, spending time with classmates and talking about sugaring, turns out he is talking to a friend of mine, told her he is not seeing anyone else, saying he only had an arrangement back in april, and that he is monogamous.

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He said he wants his money back

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He said he wants his money back

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He says he wants his money back

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Im in Canada, how to do so?

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He is so mad now he just sent this:

Irrespective of what I’m doing with my life … we had an agreement which I had honoured … and if your perception of what I’m doing made you turn another direction I would have appreciated some communication about it. So in the vein the optics of what is going on from my end are simply not right. I am happy to find out early how you behave on a hunch or a whim without communication … I’m grateful you call it quits and it’s my gain in the longer run.

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He is not happy now:

He just replied

Irrespective of what I’m doing with my life … we had an agreement which I had honoured … and if your perception of what I’m doing made you turn another direction I would have appreciated some communication about it. So in the vein the optics of what is going on from my end are simply not right. I am happy to find out early how you behave on a hunch or a whim without communication … I’m grateful you call it quits and it’s my gain in the longer run.

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It didn't feel right ... he sending half .. 4 days pass by ... and he interviewing other hirls and not sending me my other half.

Then asking me if we could meet tomorrow, I do not have a good vibe about him no more. So I don't know if I over reacted, but I ended it :( I feel sad

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I mean, why the fuck are you sending 1/2 the allowance (you even have my address) where you send me uber/I know who the guy is thats why the address.

But ... why the fuck keep me on stand by??? Go fuck yourself mtfkr...

No time for this. I thought I may miss other great opportinities.

Am I over reacting??

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