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I've been seeing a guy, 3 times, he feposited 1/2 my monthly allowanve and said, he has an etransfer limit. We had a great time last week but hasn't invite me out this week at all, yet I find he is chatting with other prospects..
What does that mean? Shall I keep seeing him??
I just ended him, as I have a feeling this is not going to be a good fit for me
Sorry, I am too smart to fall into your gaslighting Sr. I mean, he is lying, and sayi g he hid his part of the arrangement ... wait, no... you didn't etransfer the 2nd half, plusssss, you are still fucking hunting while saying you are Mono
The reference number is altered :)
He asked me out tomorrow, after he was messaging with 2 of my schoolmates today,
I just ended things
As much as I would like to say yes, I regret I won´t be able to. I find this is not going to work between us. I just have the feeling we may be into 2 different things.
Although It was lovely meeting you, the city is small, and who knows we may ran into each other one day, and you may want to say Hello I will be pleased to.
I wish you the very best finding what you are looking for.
Again, thanks so much!
🌸 thank you! After the comments here I decided I need to stand up and I am really not taking his money as a gift/ he had to pay me.
3 dates plus 1 sleep o er with sex, he owed 1/2 of tbe allowance. So NO he won't get a cent back.
I don't feel good taking the money :( but I blocked him already and I don't know how to give it back
Right 4 days later, he is to busy interviewing others and still owi g 1/2 our arrangement
He says he wants the money back
He says he wants the money back
He was talking to one classmate todsy saying he is monogamous, yet he accepted in our chat on whatsapp that he does what he wishes with his life meaning, interviewing girls
This is an awesome idea, thanks for saving me for next time
It has been 4 days, since he sent 1/2 allowance and he has been interviewing new girls meantime
Do we ask for full monthly allowance up front?
Thank you!!!
I just ended things, and wished him well.
(He invited me out tomorrow)As much as I would like to say yes, I regret I won´t be able to. I find this is not going to work between us. I just have the feeling we may be into 2 different things.
Although It was lovely meeting you, the city is small, and who knows we may ran into each other one day, and you may want to say Hello I will be pleased to.
I wish you the very best finding what you are looking for.
Again, thanks so much!
Im sure he has the money but i dunno why he only transfered 1/2
I just whatsapped him this:
GEORGE has sent you $2,000.00 and the money has been automatically deposited into your bank account at TD Canada Trust.
Message:
This is daily e-trsf limt, this is 1st of 2 pmts.
Reference Number:Â C1njgutg34
Waiting to see what he replies, but I feel bad he is still looking and only sent 1/2
Why to keep me as backup if he doesn't like me??
I ended him. Before he uses my time :) I want my next daddy ;)
It is ok. I understand there is etransfer limit. But ... where is the rest??? Days passed by, you are hunting others, but still owe me??
Hehehehe, I just pitty him. Anyone wants to donate him skme $$$???
To cover for his health issues? Back pain, gout, and erection issues???
I feel Ill give it all back $$$ and tell him, wish you good health
When we had our first video chat, I asked, are you gonna see other girls? He said, yes. So last Weekend after seeing eachother for a month, he is like so you wanna have an arrangement? I said: well, you said you are looking for long term and connection, and you were seeing other girls, so I was hoping you'll make a desition. Before getting into an arrangement with you.
So he is like, ohhh but yeah, I said I will interview more girls, but I am not seeing anyone.
So, today my friend shows me who she is talking with and he offered her an arrangement, asking her to phone him. And I got confused, I thought we had an arrangement.
I am ok with them seeing more than myself. As long as he gives me my allowance and is honest. I am not here to baby sit him.
He now wants his money back.
I am confused.
I feel sad, as I don't want to steal any money but how can I contact him back after I blocked and deleted?
We have seen eachother for about a month, spent time gone on dates. Just got i timate last weekend. He mentioned he is looking for long term. Today, spending time with classmates and talking about sugaring, turns out he is talking to a friend of mine, told her he is not seeing anyone else, saying he only had an arrangement back in april, and that he is monogamous.
He is so mad now he just sent this:
Irrespective of what I’m doing with my life … we had an agreement which I had honoured … and if your perception of what I’m doing made you turn another direction I would have appreciated some communication about it. So in the vein the optics of what is going on from my end are simply not right. I am happy to find out early how you behave on a hunch or a whim without communication … I’m grateful you call it quits and it’s my gain in the longer run.
He is not happy now:
He just replied
Irrespective of what I’m doing with my life … we had an agreement which I had honoured … and if your perception of what I’m doing made you turn another direction I would have appreciated some communication about it. So in the vein the optics of what is going on from my end are simply not right. I am happy to find out early how you behave on a hunch or a whim without communication … I’m grateful you call it quits and it’s my gain in the longer run.
It didn't feel right ... he sending half .. 4 days pass by ... and he interviewing other hirls and not sending me my other half.
Then asking me if we could meet tomorrow, I do not have a good vibe about him no more. So I don't know if I over reacted, but I ended it :( I feel sad
I mean, why the fuck are you sending 1/2 the allowance (you even have my address) where you send me uber/I know who the guy is thats why the address.
But ... why the fuck keep me on stand by??? Go fuck yourself mtfkr...
No time for this. I thought I may miss other great opportinities.
Am I over reacting??
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Fuck him - I am no ones cold pizza