I was thinking, and I'm not the only lady who feels they are too old to be an SB 🍭. I am a black woman, and we have all heard people say black doesn't crack. Hell, anyone can crack and age horribly if you don't take care of yourself, so in my opinion, those who practice self-care don't crack. Many assume I'm 26, but I'm honest, and I get hit with you look terrific. I'm not going to lie. After having weight loss surgery and losing 130 pounds, I feel great, like I'm 26, lol! Maybe I should call myself a sugar queen, luxe lady, sugar diva, classy connoisseur. I don't know something cause I may have that babyface, but my age is different. I'm not insecure about aging, but I love it! As I aged, older men became sexier and sexier, mouth-watering goodness! Please give me a silver fox like Robert Sterling from Mad Men any day.

I want to retire mistress shoes 👠 and settle down and marry an affluent gentleman. I prefer to date men outside my race and often ask why because those men have been more respectful and supportive to me than men of my race. My very diverse father was the only man who has been supportive within my race. So, I was exposed to different cultures and ethnic backgrounds as a child. If you grew up in a black middle-class family, then you know the struggles and expectations that are expected of us. I find it funny my family acts so shocked when I have a white guy on my arm, but I was the only black girl in my school at one point, so of course, Ryan with the green eyes was fine, lol 😆 all was fine until we got busted making out in the confessional booth in the church. I don't know, so maybe my handsome, affluent husband is waiting for me somewhere, waiting for me to say I'm ready! Thank you for attending this Mistress TED Talk 💬