Honestly I am just so tired this month. I have ran into a variety of issues: SDs refusing to verify, EDIT “confirm by video call, or Live Photo’s, or even exchange photos, that they are indeed who they are in their photos or sharing who they are.”It’s been over 10 plus people in the last month. SDs refusing to discuss terms and boundaries of an arrangement but persistently wanting to discuss sex. SDs ghosting after scheduling meet and greets. Inexperienced SDs as SA is changing which it’s like essentially taking lead on every step of every interaction. Scammers left and right, constant catfishes, and more. For instance I asked just told a guy “hey id like to exchange photos, verify, then discuss an arrangement to ensure our interests align prior to scheduling a meet and greet.” His response “I want you naked, what is it going to take.” I look for intimacy in an arrangement, but that being the response to a few sentences in is just cringing…as well as lays the foundation in how a man will treat me. Unfortunately a message SBs know all to well.

I’m drained as finding someone in My local city has become more difficult . Everything I learned coming into the bowl is changing it feels like. Where did the good ones go 😩. I know they are out there, just everything is being so flooded by “extra” it’s becoming tiresome.

Thanks for listening to my rant❤

***Edit as this seems to be a lot of questions on the word verify. For all SDs who ask to see photos of an SB, who request a video call, who request a special photo request to confirm they are indeed the female from the photos, to confirm you aren’t being catfished, etc, I am stating the same thing. ❤️❤️❤️