Today I got stood up. This for the third time within a month! By your fellow redditors. I cannot tell you how astronomically infuriating it is that I, and other fellow SBs, are when this happens.

(Mind yours about sending Lyfts etc).

The amount of time we take to have you comfortable, share photos, establish trust, get dolled up, and prepare for the M&G only to be ghosted or given 1000 rookie excuses. If I wanted this BS I would stay in the vanilla world.

Yes, yes. Patience, patience, etc. I mean leading up to the final hours. What the hell do you guys get off on doing that to people’s time?

The boasting and bragging about being notable members of the community or corporate world. The asking for discretion. You ask us to put ourselves second to your significants, if you have one. How you don’t like to waste time because time is invaluable, only to have the ladies waiting shamefully embarrassed.

Good riddance, y’all. Have some class and at least tell us you changed your minds. 🙄

Addendum: appreciate all your feedback and support. I’m not bashing all SDs. To those who clearly don’t move indecently, that’s great for you and your babies. I’m speaking of my specific experiences and the ones who know who they are.

Already there appears to be a pattern where several SBs have a feeling we’re dealing with the same people just based off pattern, location, and verbiage.

Ruthless y’all. Just keep it moving and troll somewhere else.