We (both in early 40s) had a good run but our SR had been on and off. We broke up and patched up a couple of times in last few months. As of now, we aren’t talking for a couple of weeks. I know SB has a huge credit card debt (low to mid $xx,xxx).

A few days ago, I sent her a text asking if she wants to be in SR again? She never read my messages. I really like her. Finances are a big concern for her (but not the only one). I don’t know what other concerns are for her, but our arguments were due to our personalities. However, I wonder if I pay off her credit card debt, would it make her come back to me? It will be a bit of stretch for me. What would you do in this case? What would you advise me?