How do I stop this? In every arrangement/relationship I’ve had, every SD develops feelings extremely quickly. Only a small handful of them have taken to using this love bombing tactic to diminish the “sugaring” aspect, the others have continued and sometimes even become more helpful towards me.

Part of the reason I’m in sugaring is to get away from serious relationships like this, I prefer the casual approach even if I treat them like a bf. Like, I care for them but I don’t need to be spending my whole day with someone etc because I like my alone time and safe space. I don’t want to stay the night either unless we’ve been seeing each other for over 3-4 months. I’m fine staying very late, but I’ll sleep in my own home thanks. How do I stop SDs from apparently getting all these feelings for me without losing/crippling my own personality?

For personality clarification: within a SR im incredibly communicative and honest, open minded. I love listening and having long chats, I am passionate and full of life. Love making sure whoever I’m with feels amazing. Life is too short to not enjoy the time you have because tomorrow is never promised type of vibe.

Am I doing this wrong? Lol, I’m always upfront about wanting things to stay within a type of NSA vibe. I don’t want commitment that way, unless a LONG time has passed (I’m talking no less than a year).