I’ve been seeing someone for about 2 months. After meeting a few times we agreed to x per week in allowance. Last week I didn’t receive anything, then we met briefly (about 1.5 hours) because I was sick and it’s all I could handle. This week I got half of my allowance. I’ve tried on 5 different occasions to set up a date and offered different days/ times I was available. None of them worked. We still text regularly which is time out of my day. He’s also not asked me out in the past 2 weeks. I know this is all just because he’s really busy right now. His work and business plus family is crazy with it being summer but I don’t feel it’s fair to me when I’ve made myself available multiple days (for example I texted yesterday that I’m available any weekday evening, all day Friday, or early morning Saturday).

Side question: should I maybe just next this one? I have others that are interested but I have such a great connection with this one. I have time to meet other daddies and keep this relationship, but the texting and planning might be too much for me because I’m not in the same room as my phone at work nor do I have breaks