Maybe their aren't as many, or maybe they end up hidden within all the daddies, but how realistic is it to find a sugar mommy? I presume harder than finding a sugar daddy? I have to have a very long relationship with a man to want to properly give sugar, at least a handful of months if not much longer. Which I don't think would make majority of sugar daddies very happy. I'm happy to be intimate, but going all the way would be tough for me. But with women, I would HAPPILY do so. Though finding even a single post from one tends to be very difficult. Any advice on different places to look or different approaches? 21F here if that would make any difference. Having a strong preference for women and looking to get into the sugar lifestyle for the first time is making this very difficult but I don't want to give up. Where are all the wlw mommies hiding!