** This is in no way an ad**

I’m a pretty dominant person; I consider myself a switch but will not submit to just anyone, thus I tell people upfront when they inquire about my profile stating I’m a switch, that I prefer being dominant.

I’ve noticed there are definitely people interested in this lifestyle, but I’ve also noticed that it seems like they end up trying to treat it like they’re a controlling spoiling boyfriend, or splenda daddy. I’ve had inquiries in the past where I was told almost word for word that at first they wanted to treat it like their previous arrangement-where the SB was very well kept-but upon wanting to explore their submissive side with me, they wanted to treat me like an cheap escort. Perhaps that was just an excuse to hide their initial tendencies to do the latter anyway, lol.

What I’m not exactly understanding is why so many people tend to think a D/s type of sugaring relationship would be less than or much different than a regular sugaring relationship. I feel like D/s requires a level of trust and confidence between a pair that on average cases would surpass that of a vanilla sugar.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m experienced quite a bit in IRL & hybrid D/s relationships, so it’s not like I’m falling for any of the nonsense.

I may be wrong in my opinion, but wanted to hear stories and opinions of others on this.