Hey guys - 30s SD here and long-time reader of this sub and always have enjoyed info shared here by both SBs and SDs. I am a SD who travels a bit and often goes to NYC for a few days at a time to break from work. I hate the Seeking and SD websites and other online platforms and have found most of my success meeting SB opportunities in person through social settings etc.

I really do not have any friends in NYC since I travel alone, so social settings aren't going to be much help for me here in meeting a potential SB. Is there any where / place / experience in NYC that you guys would recommend hanging out around with a chance to meet strangers, who socialize, that could potentially be a SB opportunity? No I'm not talking about strip clubs etc.

I'm no model but have plenty of self confidence, can easily sell myself through my personality, selflessness etc, and know how to treat women with gestures, gifts, and experiences.

I'm hoping someone can shed light on finding SBs in NYC beyond using online platforms. I need to be discreet, most of my experience entail PPM with moving to allowance after a bond has been built, and I do not have the multiple SB mentality.

Appreciate you guys