Started chatting with a pot the other day. We were having a decent conversation. Her ask was suspiciously low - high end of XXX monthly but she was on the young side and it tracked with her story (working, in school, moved into her first apartment and wasn't able to live comfortably).

Cool. I can help with that. Hell, I'd probably give her more than her ask so I didn't feel super grimy about the whole thing 🤷‍♂️.

Fast forward. We chat a bit and I bring up meeting for coffee for a M&G and she says no. She wants to keep it online at first until she "feels comfortable".

I ask how that would work. She says texting and Facetime and Zoom etc.

I told her there's no such thing as an online SR and that I wasn't interested in anything that didn't involve in person interaction. She said that her safety "is paramount" (remember, I asked her to meet for coffee, not invite me to her apartment, not meet me at a sleazy motel or come to my home, coffee at a coffee shop in the middle of the day with lots of people around).

I responded that she obviously didn't know how this works and I was going to move on and wished her luck finding a guy willing to give her close to a grand a month for text messages.

Option 1: She's a real person and legitimately has no clue how sugaring works

Option 2: She's a real person who bought into the TikTok BS about sugaring.

Option 2: She's a scammer

I don't know which option she falls into but this is getting more and more common these days. Why can't we find decent sugar babies who WANT to be sugar babies?