I see quite a few posts about being too young for sugaring, and I agree. Being younger than 22/23 does out women at a disadvantage when sugaring bc I think you’re willing to put up with more BS. Especially with allowances/ gifts available.

However, if I had entered the sugaring world at 18 and I was lucky enough to meet the men I know now, I never would have vanilla dated. Being in a true sugar relationship where the respect is mutual and I’m taken under their wing, I would greatly benefited from it back then. Even now, I have a clearer goal, I’m so much more confident, and I have someone that encourages me to be my best self.

I wasn’t lucky enough to meet someone like that in vanilla dating, but if I knew what I know now at 18, I would’ve jumped in without even looking down. All of that to say, I’m blessed with what sugaring has offered me 🥰