Time waste. Spent too much time chatting with scammers that I could sense where fake and too disconnected during the messaging convo.

I was looking for a genuine in person CA based SB. So after many chats/scams and wasted time, I’m sticking with chats and discussions from Insta/Reddit that transition into real chats and conversations. Wasted away too much time filtering through fake messages on SA. Most SD don’t have this time to waste. We rather do something productive or stay in contact with a developing relationship.

What I’ve learned is all these environments have scammers attracted to them that pursue to one time a fool, they play the part and avoid voice and video calls that help you down the path to verify. The easiest scams they pursue is pay me before M&G(requesting for travel/time but will avoid the comped M&G), they can’t verify with specific style photo(mutual verification, I like to make it fun), can’t pick up a voice call(scam to the max), only have nudes to message(no casual pics/selfies), fresh profile a day old and my fav is no ability to keep the convo flowing in plain English, they make you feel like you are talking to a confused siri/robot 🤖

If you have an opinion on this or similar exp, please share. Can’t wait to see how AI will affect SR pursuits online.