i haven’t actively been in the bowl for a few years. i was in an amazing relationship. i must’ve had unicorn luck that day. i met him the first day i signed up on seeking & he treated me amazingly. i’ve been back on seeking maybe a week & i’ve had the most awful experience. i met one guy i thought was a potential but he only wants phone sex. everybody else has been scammers. i read you have to go outside to find potentials but I wouldn’t even know how to differ between potential SDs & vanilla guys. I’m putting in job applications & that’s going even worse ; i’m assuming because i haven’t had real job history for a few years. i just lost my apartment & have 2 months to save enough to find another apartment 😩😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️ i literally have to laugh to keep from crying. so stressful & annoying.