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About 6 years ago I joined seeking arrangement & was lucky to find a generous, amazingādaddyā the first day. So, I deleted my account. He recently passed & now iām thinking about creating a new profile. He always told me if I ever have to search for a new ādaddyā if the guy is not willing to discuss the terms of an arrangement in the first conversation & ready to give you an āallowanceā on your first meeting; to not waste my time. Heās either not serious or canāt afford to be a sugar daddy. Do you guys think this is sound advice? I donāt want to go in with unrealistic expectations. Also, Iāve noticed the name has changed from seeking arrangement to seeking. Is it the same concept? Iām 6 years older but still fairly young & look the same but iām scared men will think iām too old? Although I donāt look it at all. In my opinion I still look pretty attractive & guys try to talk to me all the time. Have any of you had any luck on seeking? If not which site helped you the most?
I donāt know so many women feel like they lose their worth the moment they start to age? Iām almost 30 and I feel more confident and sexy than ever. What captivates a man initially is typically beauty but thatās not what really charms them and gets them hooked on you. Your mindset is everything. Believe youāre less worthy because of your age and men will treat you like it. You create your reality!
Also I personally donāt recommend sugar sites to anyone. Itās so much better meeting men organically in the wild. I just feel like online sites are too much B.S. You can get lucky for sure but it will take lots of patience and a good vetting process.
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Try not to focus on what you offer externally. Yes taking care of ourselves is important but try not to compare yourself with younger girls or itās a recipe for disaster. Think of all the ways you have grown and how much more you have to offer now that you have more wisdom and experience ā¤ļø
You had a sugar relationship with a generous provider for 6 years. So you obviously are doing something right š