Edited to add: I have a premium account and only message premium SDs.

When a POT SB reaches out to you, how do you prefer they do that? I try to reference something they've said in their profile to show I read it, and then invite them out for coffee. Granted, coffee is more a euphemism for tea for me, but "going out for coffee" is a semi-public and laid back M&G option, so it seems safe.

My problem is, for 100 msgs sent, I'll get maybe 2 back, over the course of 2 or 3 weeks, and then if I continue the conversation they ghost me within a week, long before actually getting to a M&G.

So I'm just curious if there's a better method. I'm planning on doing a profile review when I get some updated photos, cause that's the first thing everyone mentions.