Hello , for context I’m a sugar baby and I’ve been a little let down .

Of course it’s best to not get emotionally invested in arrangements but unfortunately I found myself in such a place . I’ve usually been really good about keeping my arrangements at an arms length and I hadn’t met anyone who I liked in a real way .

Long story short we had an arrangement for 3 months that I very much enjoyed . It was beneficial emotionally sexually and financially as good arrangements are supposed to be . He asked to be exclusive and I agreed because that’s more my style anyways . I know it’s best to have a backup but being naive got the best of me and I know that .

Very unexpectedly I received a text that he was moving forward with a relationship with someone else and that he couldn’t see me anymore . Something felt off and It felt like a punch in the gut . I decided to reactive my seeking tonight to update my profile and get it up and running for the coming weeks when I’m ready to put myself out there again . I looked at his profile and it had been updated since we’ve been seeing each other with pictures I’m fairly confident he took whilst we were together because they were from trips I knew he took . Either way , it had been updated .

I feel stupid and vulnerable right now . I told him I like to keep my arrangements a certain way and that I don’t usually open up as I would if it were a guy I was pursuing a regular relationship with but he encouraged me to open up and be myself so I did . Lesson learned . I’m just feeling really let down right now . I know where my mistakes were made btw and learned a good lesson going forward .