Brief but no so much, Connected with someone on SA and he initiated a msg, then the conversation led to us exchanging other social media to more quickly communicate. The conversation has been basically about relationship habits, dynamic preferences, etc "if we were to... would you be open to..." type stuff. No specific mention of anything SR. I'm wondering, what is the likelihood, and I think it's high, that this guy is using SA for dating more than SR. Is he feeling me out and intentionally being vague? Should I bring it up or ride it out until something comes up? I have no qualms thus far or with going along and potentially establishing a vanilla relationship with him while pursuing other SR. He did state he wants to be mono if things get to be serious, and I shared my solo poly history with no opposition to mono relationships. We both reiterated we are into organic progression, but that seems to go against SR in my mind mostly. We messaged for 2 hrs and I was like, 'what was that' afterwards. SBs and SDs, what would be your initial take?