We had our first platonic meet and agreed on an allowance, he likes me and wants to see me again everything went well. Well, now he is going out of town and then has xyz things coming up. Asked if we could meet next in several weeks.

But now he’s asking for teasers and photos, wanting to text throughout the day, etc. quite frankly I just don’t want to put my time into that without allowance, because when I have in the past it’s led to me putting in effort and attention and not getting anything in return (I think it’s called salt daddy’s?).

The successful arrangements I’ve had in the past all started allowance before intimacy and without me having to put pressure on them for it, and it made me feel comfortable with moving forward.

Am I totally out of line to have the perspective of not wanting to engage further until allowance starts? Is it rude to say that?

Editing to add context: when we talked about allowance and expectations we settled in a set allowance and he stated he was looking for dates, time together, etc that sometimes but not always led to intimacy.