I’m a first time married, older (61) SD with a younger (22) SB. We have known each other close to a year now. With 2 short beaks in that time period. Our arrangement at first was three digits a month for texting, pics and videos. No meet ups. No intimacy. Since August it has gone up to four digits a month with us spending time together and making out with the understanding it evolves into intimacy. My situation is this. This week she has had friends, one from out of town. Celebrating Halloween. Which just happens to be the same week my wife is out of town. I’ve asked for 2 hours, one day to spend time with her at her house. Which is leaving up to what her friends have planned or if they stay with her. My question: am I asking to much with the amount of money she is receiving. For her to give up 2 hours for me? . The chances of us getting alone time are limited when my wife is in town.
To the point I’m feeling used and unappreciated. Advice please. We get along great but this is a little much