Over the last couple of years I have met a couple of wonderful women on Seeking or WYP. I am one of those guys who send a Starbucks gift card after doing a voice conversation prior to the meet and greet and providing a gift when we met for the first time in person. I make sure the woman never feels obligated for anything. I have given women advice on safety and told many this isn't for them. No judgement, just how I decide to roll.

I have had a couple of occasions where it is obvious where the woman is desperate. When talking about the bowl they reveal being behind in rent, broken down car, health issue, etc.

I recently met an attractive woman in her 20s with a college degree but was in a tough spot (too much for here). While very physically attractive, she wasn't the right fit for me.

But what do you (as SD's) do?!

In the two occasions this has happened to me i chose to help financially with no obligation. I have handed over cash that equates to four very good seats to an NFL football game.

I am not trying to win points but maybe we can look for the human element a bit more too, myself included.