I've been in the swinger lifestyle a bit over 5 years, open to alot. But recently lost my partner and it's weird going to meet couples or singles alone, a safety concern almost. So I've been looking to find partners that want to swing occasionally or are ok being open, and someone brought this lifestyle up, now I'm intrigued. I'm not ready for a long committed relationship, the last one left a bad taste, but I want someone to play with on occasion that has more to offer then your average dating app guy ( an average size package, normal car, and lives with parents still).
I'm not into married men, and don't really need support, I've been a single mom 16 years and gotten along to this point. I want an intriguing person, that has life goals, future plans, his own home and car, and can hold a conversation. Hell, just a guy that could pay for a date, like a nice one. I'm not shallow with looks, but don't look bad myself. My other problem is I'm pretty much a sex addict and have many sexual desires and needs in that realm but don't want to just get with any guy that sends a picture my way, I'd like some kind of connection first. And I've always held the pride that my body hasn't been seen by everyone, I'd be a stripper if I didn't care lol. From a small town so there's not many options around me in either lifestyle. Any advice on how this lifestyle may or may not work for my needs.