Downvote if you like but the most common sugar daddy models are in-person, based on allowance or ppm. It is clear that most of you here don’t actually want to meet. It’s normal to be apprehensive about safety. That’s why it’s also typical to have public meet & greet dates prior to sugar dates.

So where are all the “real” sugar daddies? They’re either on seeking arrangements dot com or other such websites and on Reddit we can be found commenting in r/sugarlifestyleforum or posting or searching posts on r/slfmeetups.

So where are the “real” people seeking online girlfriends? They’re on r/sexsells. Why? Because that community verifies users, blacklists scammers and mediates when a transaction isn’t going per agreement.

So why aren’t the “real” SDs here? It becomes obvious to us after multiple attempts and replies of “buy my content first” that you’re not interested in being a sugar baby in person, which again, is the truest form of a sugar relationship.

And why aren’t real content buyers here? Why would they take their chances on unverified sellers? I’m one of the few that doesn’t learn my lesson and have been scammed multiple times already (most common is being blocked as soon as any money is sent)

So who’s left? Newbies who will learn the lessons above the hard way and, you got it, scammers.