Ladies and Sugar Babies you MUST GET Half or FULL Payment FIRST before you exchange ANY content. Texting a beautiful young woman for hours a day who maintains an engaging conversation and sends you cute selfies asks how you are says good morning and good night is a commodity even without nudes REMEMBER THIS. Do not WORK for free.

I saw a post this week about 1200 but payment would not be sent until half way through or after. And 6 or so of us commented and said they were interested and went on to make the content. No one got paid. I’ve been there and wasted 4 hours making all original content for someone who didn’t pay a penny and mocked me for crying as I was evicted cause I needed that money for the bills.

So here’s my RED FLAGS you won’t be paid

1. He says he will pay in the middle or after No one is going to stop stroking to send you a PayPal they couldn’t send before they started. And once they have cum there is absolutely no reason to pay you. I have been desperate enough to go against my gut on multiple occasions and baby guess what…… I have NEVER EVER BEEN PAID in one of these agreements. Also, every time you agree to this you undermine the rest of us demanding payment up front b/c they’ll be able to say well my other sugar baby did it that way. Answer: then go ask her to do this. I WONT create content without 1/2 or all the payment in hand.

2. The amount is RIDICULOUS and wayyyyyyy higher than the average price for the same activity. Common sense says no one is paying 20x for something for absolutely no reason. You may be beautiful but if you’re not famous there’s no reason they would want to pay that much more for nothing extra. Example the post I mentioned before: why is he paying 1200 for a RANDOM girl to do exactly the same thing he can get for 25-100 ?? Because we are desperate enough for the money we allow hope to propel us past where common sense would say hey! That does not sound right

3. Pay to be paid I hope we all know that there are 0 circumstances where this is real but just in case you’re very new and naive…. YOU NEVER EVER have to pay to be paid on any peer to peer app. PayPal does technically make you pay but it takes the money from the total you are receiving automatically you don’t do a separate transaction.

4. Mobile deposit and checks THIS IS ALWAYS A SCAM ALWAYS EVEN IF YOU SEE THE MONEY IN YOUR ACCOUNT. Trust me I got and then lost $2000 this was when the check’s finally bounced a week later

5. Verification Photos: you should need 1 that meets their requirements or do a short simple CLOTHED video call. Do not keep sending photos. If he can’t tell you’re real enough to send money by now he’s never going to… and for the love of MONEY Do NOT send ANY nudes for free. Why would I pay you at that point for something I already got for free?

EDITS:

1. They asked for and received your payment info after you agreed upon a price and yet NO MONEY has shown up. This sometimes is simply because they are occupied in a way that prevents them from getting to it immediately so give it 2 hours. See if there’s anyway you can assist some of them are (sorry daddies) old and may not be comfortable with PayPal etc.

However if they’re fucking around it can go a few ways

A. They send you a screenshot/ a transaction ID or you receive an email but you can’t see anything on your end. Open the help chat send them the info and ask them if they can see a transaction pending or initiated with your account.

B. They ignore all further mentions of the money and keep trying to have the conversation, flirt, or get nudes now you have made an arrangement. Remember: NO MONEY = NO HONEY. DO not do anything you would normally be paid for. If they have time to have a full conversation with you they have time for the <10 clicks it takes to open the link type a number and hit send. Trust me when I tell you if it doesn’t show up with in 2 hours it is probably never coming. Small talk for 2 hours then sparingly reply for the next 24 hours. This is more than enough time they aren’t paying. NEXT.

C. They start whining about being scammed before and they don’t know you well etc etc. Offer to have the payment sent via PayPal as goods and services so they can be refunded if they are scammed. Or do 1/2 payment now another later. If neither of these satisfy them, they are in fact the scammer. NEXT.

D. They start working the price down. Offer 1/2 payment upfront another later. If they don’t agree.. NEXT. Porn is free but me, my time, and my titties are not free or even on a discount.

PLEASE if any of the above happens to you Block and post their fake ass on here so we can block too. Let’s make a united front against salt daddies and stop them from being able to prey on our ignorance. And PAYMENT FIRST. we ALL have to do this no exceptions. Make it an unquestionable standard.

I know this post is doom and gloom about the unlimited number of FUCKHEADS but babies there’s men who will be amazing. Some of my highlights: $500 surprise just for a trip to Walmart, a brand new laptop, a month in an air bnb for ME alone to relax and take a break, bills paid, trips to the nail salon etc etc etc don’t waste your time on any of the salty broke beggars and get to the real DADDIES who spoil you ❤️❤️