My girl is on subs to help with her sub addiction. She has cptsd. It takes away all grounding and she goes through stages of her dose. It goes from nod for 2 hours anger pain and suffering reliving all of her trauma and place me in the shoes of the abuser. To anger tears black eyes scary anger non-stop talking will not let me speak everything I say is if you say nothing I say is right I have to agree with everything she says her everything is wrong. All within six hours and it happens every single time she doses in that order.

It's destroying our relationship she recently told me today that the only way she would consider getting off subs as if I stop taking them but I take them because I actually need them she takes him for a suboxone addiction and tells me she's going to be too jealous if I take them and she has to stop taking I tell her I think Naltrexone would be a good alternative for since it's more alcohol cravings she's trying to fight.

I don't know what to do I'm scared my relationship is going to crumble to the point of no return when she was using alcohol she would get violent and things were bad and it was all trauma-related she can hear what I'm saying to her she thinks that I'm not listening to it and it's destroying our relationship.

I don't know what I'm really asking here other than I need some help trying to maybe help her see that what's going on is that the grounding technique she has are gone and there's no time left it's been 3 months of this hell and I don't know how much more I can

Edit I posted this before but she saw that it happened and deleted it. Also fixing grammar