Sitting at dinner about a month ago, my wife randomly asked, "What if I asked you to be submissive?" My response, "Anything you want, ma'am." That kind of surprised her. It kind of surprised me, too. She's 53. I'm 52. Both of us have been married before.

When we were dating, we'd been out drinking one night. On the way home, she said she had a flogger and that she'd love to tie me up and use it. Nothing ever came of that.

Fast forward to the statement at dinner a month ago, then to yesterday... we were on a road trip to visit some of my family 4 hours away. I knew of a Lion's Den store about half way. I got off the exit to get a drink and some snacks at a gas station. Instead of getting back on the highway, I pulled into the Lion's Den. She blushed and said, "No." I told her that we needed to go in and whatever she wanted would finish her Christmas presents, there would be no judgment whatsoever.

We walked around the store. She was drawn to the section that had cock sleeves. I'm not small but I know she wishes mine curved up to hit her gspot better. She picked up a toy that looks like an old school shoe horn. It's a cock ring with a wand attachment that vibrates. She smiled saying that she thinks she wanted to try this for her gspot. I grabbed it and asked her what else. I told her that since she mentioned me being submissive, we needed to consider what that meant to her. She blushed but walked toward the butt plug section. She decided on a prostate beginners kit with multiple toys including different sized anal beads, a cock ring with attached butt plug, and several different sized plugs. She asked I'd try them. "Yes, ma'am."

Then she walked toward a hollow strap on with a big upward curve. I saw her eyes so I grabbed it. She asked, "Will you wear that for me?"

"Yes, ma'am. Maybe you'll want to use it on me, too"

She then grabbed a sexy red, shear outfit that looks like something a domme might wear, hand cuffs and a flogger.

I can't wait to get home to try all of these! I'll take pics of the toys when I get a chance.