Out to dinner two weeks ago, my wife asked, "What if I wanted to try the submissive thing with you being submissive?"

We're both 52. Our sex life is good but is pretty vanilla. This has never come up before, but it instantly turned me on. My response, "Ma'am, I'd get on my knees, kiss your feet, and wait for instruction."

She's been traveling a lot for work lately. No doubt she found a porn or two that put this in her head. My issue is that she won't engage in it again. There are times I'll get a text or she'll asked me to do something that I'll respond with "Yes Ma'am. Is there anything else I can do for you?" It goes unacknowledged. It's actually a long time fantasy to be a submissive. Next steps?