Hey everyone, I just have something that’s been weighing on me very heavily and could use some support.

The thing is that I feel like no domme is ever going to love me. It’s not because of BDSM. BDSM is very popular and I’m sure that there are a lot more dommes out there than we think. I’m worried that no domme is going to want me as a sub, and indeed that no vanilla woman is going to want me as a BF or husband. For starters, I am TERRIBLE at talking to women. I’m always completely clueless when I try to talk to them, and my conversations with them never last long. A lot of them don’t even seem to be open to conversations to begin with. I’ve also done really stupid things that have come off as creepy before. And I’m not hideous, but I’m not exceptionally handsome either.

All these things have made me really depressed and prone to anger and jealousy, and it’s just really hard being a subby guy and not knowing if anyone will ever want to be your domme.

Anyway, that’s it. It’s good to have a community full of people to talk to about these things.