Recently my (M50s) relationship with my wife (F50s) underwent a massive shift. For most of our 25 years I have been the dominant one both in the bedroom and out. Over the last few months, as my retirement loomed, I started to become more submissive.

Since my career was ending, my stress levels were lower and I had more freetime. It started with me cooking daily, having a drink waiting for her when she came home, rubbing her feet, etc. Nothing overtly submissive. I took over the laundry, paying particular attention to her underwear. I discarded a bunch or old thongs and wornout bras. I replaced these with matching bra/thong sets. One day that I don't remember, I was getting her underthings ready for her and she made a comment about me treating her like a child and picking out her clothes. I jokingly knelt down and proferred her thong so she could step in.

This quickly progressed to me selecting her outfit for the day and completely dressing her for work. It felt so natural to kneel at her feet and service her, one less thing for her to worry about.

Now I get up 20 minutes before her alarm so I can have her coffee ready and start preparing her lunch. I greet her kneeling and presenting her coffee. The touch of her hand and her "thank you " sends shivers through me. When she is settled on the sofa with her phone I finish her lunch prep and begin getting her clothes and work equipment ready for the day. Although I have offered to wash and shave her in the shower, she prefers to be alone with her morning routine. At some point in the morning she puts me into a chastity cage and sometimes plugs me. I spend the day cleaning, doing laundry, working out, and preparing dinner.

When she returns home, I greet her with a cocktail, kneeling naked, and ask about her day. Usually she will let me just be close, stroking my head for a minute or so before she heads to the bedroom. I follow her and undress her. I have what I hope is appropriate casual wear laid out. After I undress her she may or may not initiate sex. Luckily she prefers PIV often and my orgasm is part of her pleasure.

If we just stay in and watch TV, I will serve her dinner and clean up. I'll spend the remainder of the evening sitting on the floor beside her, fetching whatevershe wants. On Monday, Wed, and Saturday I shave her legs.

In public we are just a normal couple. I hold the door etc but that's because I'm a gentleman.