So I posted earlier on here, got some advice and quickly pulled the post down.

I’m a new sub and entered into a what I thought was a sub/ domme relationship but lead to a more mistress/ slave relationship I wasn’t looking for.

As I’m new to the community I really pushed every boundary I set to please this individual and it lead to me getting manipulated and causing a lot of harm physically and psychologically to myself.

There was no aftercare or anything post heavy scenes and I craved that soft intimacy after especially as I heavily felt the sub drop. Plus it felt like everything I did was for her kinks and none or mine were ever touched. I tried talking to her but in the end I decided she was too set on her way and not open to anything for me, which I guess meant she really didn’t care much about my reaching out post a while ago because she never respected anything I said : (

Anyway thank you so much for your guys advice, it lead me to pulling myself out before I did anymore harm!! Much love ❤️

Also anymore advice about how I can be clearer about boundaries and repeated breaking of my limits with future dommes very welcome!!