a while ago i made a post asking tips for facefucking. i truly truly truly enjoy doing it when i give my boyfriend head, and ever since i made that post, we agree that i've gotten better!!!!

what i found the best for us is to do it sideways while laying down in bed, because it gives me a lot of room for air and relax my head. i can also use my hands more easily to guide his cock if i lose my rhythm.

however, a big gamechanger is to actually think of myself like a fleshlight. i watched demo videos of how toys like tenga work (with the suction and everything) and bc of that i could think of myself as a toy and my mouth can work like a fleshlight. i think he really liked it when i hollowed my cheeks and actually sucked like a vacuum as i bobbed back and forth, alternating from going really deep to also just stimulating the tip really fast. i also learned to relax my jaw and breathe instead of giving up, so even if i'm not actively sucking i can still present my mouth as an opening for him to use before motioning his hand to the top of my head again. i also use my lips to create vibrations and i made sure to make a lot of nice noises lol (which is not something the tenga can do!)

so thank you community :)))