What does TPE (total power exchange) mean and/or look like to you?

My Daddy and I consider out dynamic TPE as it’s within our boundaries, but I’ve heard from a lot of people it isn’t TPE.

EDIT I’m not asking if our relationship is TPE. It’s TPE for /us/. I’m asking if you’re in a TPE dynamic, what does that mean to you personally and what does a typical day look like for you🥰

He is Daddy in and outside of the bedroom, he makes the food decisions and decides what I drink and how our day looks. He picks out my clothes and he decides when it’s bedtime and when to go to our bedroom and what we watch and/or do in our free time. Due to him not controlling my finances, when I see and talk friends/family, i refuse to let him decide if I work or not, and I pack my own lunch for work (I’m autistic and like things a very particular way), I’ve been told our dynamic is not TPE. We also don’t have strict rituals on how I greet him and I’m not required to type him with a capital H. I capitalize Daddy as that is his name. We also don’t have strict routines that we stick to.

What does TPE look like to you and what does a typical day look like?