We have agreed a written set of tenets for being a "Throuple". I have a feeling we (my wife and I) may go down the polyamorous path.

I've noticed that she absolutely loves to submit to him and is super attentive to his demands and tasks and she responds to messages from him almost instantly.

I'm making the word "compersion" (the opposite of jealousy) my new favourite. However there are times when I feel I simply do not have her attention. For example, she needed to be reminded to answer a message on her phone from me. It was no biggie but the contrast with her dom was quite stark. She can quote messages from him verbatim.

I would appreciate thoughts and advice from subs.