It’s the little things that stand out the most. The structure your submissive craves. The lead you take and the follow your sub desires. Hold her hand at the right times and listen to their feelings and insecurities….allow your sub to be naked while your dressed…and allow them to come to you, you already hold the leash…you don’t need to pull it. Dress her/him/they….set the routines. The naturally submissive can feel lost without a loving but firm dominate….just as I am lost without my submissive to guide and care for. It’s a symbiotic relationship that tightens the bond between D/S. They need you to be true to yourself because they need to make you happy. After all you have earned it through your care love and support haven’t you?

A submissive is the most beautiful delicate flower that exists….and like a flower 🌸 they need your care. You are their gardener. Tend to them carefully.

Sincerely the Gardner