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What are slutty things I could wear that won't give me sensory overload?
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Hi all!

So I'm looking for some slutty clothing to wear.

Complicating things, however, is the fact that I'm autistic. Now, granted, not every autistic person is the same; for me, though, being autistic means that, among other things, I get sensory overload. (Incidentally, it's autistic acceptance month! Hi, we exist and are a little different, it'd be neat if people were cool with that)

Anyway, in particular, that means that a lot of clothes are exceptionally uncomfortable for me. Typically, this means I'm sensitive to pressure points and chafing, though occasionally materials are rough as well.

If anyone else has sensory issues and could weigh in on this, I'd be super grateful. And even if you don't, I'd appreciate your input as well.

If your answer is "you just need to embrace the discomfort because it's hot", it's... honestly not that hot for me. Mostly just painful and distracting, or even distressing if it gets bad enough.

Here are some thoughts I have on clothing I've tried:

Shorts. Shorts are difficult for me, particularly when they're skin-tight *short* shorts. I find that the leg seams tend to ride up into my upper thigh and crotch and chafe. Granted, maybe the ones I've bought are too small? Maybe there are shorts which are slightly looser and more comfy yet still sexy?

Skirts. Skirts are interesting. They're very comfortable, and even freeing, to stand and walk in. Sitting in them can be very uncomfortable though. Either because the skirt is bunched up under my butt, or because I can feel the (often unpleasant) surface of whatever I'm sitting on. Granted, I've mostly only worn skater skirts. Maybe other styles could be more manageable?

Tube tops. Gosh I wanna rock tube tops so bad. Problem is, the top seam, where it grips around just above my boobs/below my armpits tends to be quite uncomfy. Maybe there are tanktops or other crop-tops that are similar in vibe but more comfortable?

Leggings. Leggings are sooooo comfy. Love them. They feel very casual to me, though. Like not particularly sexy. Maybe I need to find sexier ones?

Bras. I haven't worn bras since the start of the pandemic. They're quite uncomfy for me. Thankfully, not wearing a bra can be real hot. Unfortunately, it's a little normal for me at this point. Maybe I could consider sheer tops and nipple pasties to push it further?

So yeah. I'd love to hear ideas from people. :D

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