In November, I moved into a new place. It's actually my first property, one of those buildings with amenities that college students and young professionals often rent. I couldn't've afforded it on my teachers' salary alone but 4 years ago I started being a grown up and began actually saving my money from sugaring. Since moving in, I haven't been able to stop fucking these 18- to 23-year-old guys that live there.

For the past few years, I get most of my dick from weekly dating app hookups and sometimes getting picked up on nights out. It's been working well because of how truly no-strings-attached it is, so this current thing wasn't something that I planned to do, it just kind of started happening.

How it starts with each guy kind of follows a similar pattern:

1. Because I'm stupid, trying to be polite during random interactions in the lobby/condo gym/hallways/elevator turns into flirting.
2. This leads to us exchanging numbers.
3. We start texting from time to time.
4. On those nights after a long day at work, I pour myself a glass of wine, my brain checks out and my ovaries start doing the thinking.
5. Whichever neighbour was texting me at the time got an invite to come blow my back out.

In the month or so that I've moved in, I've slept with 9 baby boy Zoomer neighbours. There's something about being worshipped by a younger guy that's just so fun, even if he doesn't quite know what he's doing yet. They have this charming awkwardness and eagerness to impress that gets me weak in the knees. Their endless energy also somewhat makes up for the lack of experience. Most of them fuck me raw except one kiddo, an international student from China, prefers using condoms. As with all my boy toys, anal is my birth control. We always start with foreplay, oral and vaginal but I've been asking them to switch to my ass way before they're close to cumming.

What they like about me is that they like Asian girls and the "Mommy vibes" that I apparently give off. I'm not actually a mother but apparently in their book, Mommy vibes = an attractive enough regular body basic cooking skills a relatively clean home.

I obviously love sleeping with guys my age and older too and I do have non-college age FWBs in the building but these adorable nincompoops just can't seem to get enough of me. I've been getting daily texts from at least one of them, asking to come over and so far, if I was at home and alone, I haven't said no. They don't last that long so it's not a lot of time commitment. They're also okay with cuddling or leaving depending on what I want in the moment, which gives me so much flexibility with my time.

A fun bonus that comes with hooking up with college boys is that some of them have shared me with their friends. One guy even invited me to a college party where I got shared by 4 guys that i met there. He says there're more parties to come when it gets warmer so I'm really looking forward to that. I don't ask but I'm sure at least a few of them sleep with other girls too.

I sometimes worry about being a bad influence around safe sex because I'm AWFUL at it. We do talk about the risks and I hope that I'm doing enough on my part to protect them through open communication and monthly testing. For some reason, I feel fine being a stupid reckless slut myself but not great about about exposing them to the risks.

One thing that I'm very proud of them for is that they respect boundaries and consent. They've always respected my rule to never knock on my door and always text me. The other thing is that they're very clear on affirmative and continuous consent. The rare few times that I've gotten past tipsy around one of them, they've stopped to check if I was okay to continue. I love that about these boys.

Before I sound too sentimental, it's not like I'm close with them beyond just sex. College kids who are renting tend to move around more often, in fact one guy already has moved out and the international student is moving out in the summer. Other guys will move in and since I'm a little less wary about shitting where I'm living now, so I'll probably continue throwing myself at them. For now, I'll just cherish these guys for being lovely and available all the time.