“We’re just hanging out.”

“I don’t have any money.”

“What happens in the VIP/what do you do in the VIP room?”

“What happens in a lap dance/what is a lap dance?”

“Do I have to PAY (for lap dances)?” (suggesting that it’s free)

“Why is it so slow? Is it always like this?”

“I’m just waiting for my friend/s to come out of the back…”

I asked a guy if he wanted to buy me a drink, and he kept saying, “No, I’m okay… I’m okay…” (I don’t know why, but that really pissed me off. 🤬)

“I got a wife/girlfriend at home…”

“What are you doing after this?”

“How can I see you outside of here?”

“How much for sex?”

“Blowjob???”

etc…

(This one is more of a body language thing, but:) It also kind of annoys me when: I’ve seen it a lot, it’s that moment when, a guy — especially younger guys — will be all over their guy friends and give their Bro a big, huge MAN HUG right in front of me. Or they’re all scooched up together on the couches, touching sneakers, touching toes I’m like… are y’all even attracted to women?? 😒🤨🙄🤦🏽‍♀️ (I call groups like these the “White Sneaker Club.” 👟👟) Sneaker boys, you know it when you’ll see it. Too busy cutting up with their friends, or scrolling their phones… wayyy too absorbed in the conversations with their friend group… clowning around with their male friends a lot… not watching or tipping the stage… refuse to get dances with any of the girls… and not really warm or welcoming or receptive, to dancers in their section/at their table. (Moments like these are inevitable in the club, like, I get it, but they always trigger tf outta me.)