So I’m used to having expectations which I know I shouldn’t especially this time of year at the club. I got comfortable and now had 3 bad shifts in a row and it’s hurting me mentally. It sounds silly but it is was it is. I also noticed recently I’ve been very sensitive to comments others make in the club. I fixed a shirt for one girl and then looked at her smiling being like “there we go! Now you won’t trip” because her string was hanging so low it was dangling almost by her shoe. She said “wow you gave me eye contact, that was really engaging” and for me this comment came off so patronizing. Then, another girl came up to my friend and made a comment about something I wore. I just nodded and moved away. Within ear shot, she asked my friend if we ever work together. I don’t know why but this rubbed me the wrong way. I’m known to work on my own mostly or with a select few trusted girls but not everyone and anyone. I felt like this girl was trying to imply to my friend that she won’t benefit from me in any way. Have you girls ever had nights like this?