I plan on making a whole video on this topic, and going into personal anecdotes, as well as some personal commentary & opinion… but quite frankly, I have just been too lazy to do so and I’m all over the place!

just want to put feelers out there…

what I am really getting at here is, or what I am wanting to know about, is:

• You know, how has your experience been working in these clubs? You know, overall, in general? Like, do you guys feel like you are the minority at your club, how does it feel, how are you treated, how do you like it, how is the music, do you deal with racism and/colorism at work, what kind of clients do you attract, do you deal with the micro-aggressions, do you experience like any discrimination or prejudice, do you deal with mean/weird/ignorant/rude/or even hateful comments… etc… and things like that?

I am not trying to make this all negative, either! By all means — if you have great, wonderful, fun, beautiful, fantastic, wonderful, happy, etc., experiences at your club(s) — we wanna hear about that stuff, too!

I just kind of want to get the conversation started, and I’m itching to hear some opinions on this subject!

Specifically, I’m speaking to my fellow girlies in Southern California — you know, LA, OC, City of Industry, San Diego, Santa Barbara… etc. — but if you’re not located in Cali, that’s totally fine too! Everyone is welcome here!

ALSO— What do you do as far as hairstyles & hair, for work? Wigs, weaves, drawstring-ponytails, flat-ironed, DIY-blowouts, blowouts at Drybar, box braids, goddess braids, short hair, long hair, or natural curls? (Etc.)

Thanks!

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You don’t have to be African-American to be a part of the discussion, but keep in mind, this is mostly who we’re focusing on here. black or black mixed-race, or Afro-Latina, etc., is the focus…

I personally am mixed. You know, I’m white and I’m black, basically… And I’m American. Been living in California pretty much all my life. So that’s the perspective where I’m coming from... I don’t wanna speak on, things like Haitian, Jamaican, Trinidad & Tobago, or Dominican, because I don’t know enough about it… But I am definitely interested in the historical racial diversity of it all… especially as it relates to the industry — and in gentlemen’s clubs, particularly.

Let’s keep it real, but let’s also keep it respectful.

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