so i met this amazing dude last week who was kind, respectful, genuinely cool and funny. he does not go to strip clubs often and isn’t used to the whole culture.

he got an hour and when our time ended we left the VIP room and i left him alone to go to the bathroom. in the 4 minute span while i was gone another girl grabbed him and took him for a half hour. after their room he came back over to me and told me he wanted to come back and just see me because he went over the withdrawal limit on his card. he said he felt bad and only said yes to the other girl to be nice 😭 how do i make it clear that he’s not to see other girls if he’s coming back specifically just to see me?? i want to word it in a way that’s clear but not bitchy. i was thinking “babe i’d love if you came to see me again but i’d appreciate it if you only did rooms with me out of respect”