I am just curious what you wear to work…

Is it sweatpants and house slippers/slides?

I’ve seen some girls wear Nikes/Jordans & booty shorts…

And then I’ve seen some girls wear combat boots, and a pleated faux leather skirt with fishnets/tights/over-the-knee socks.

I’ve seen crocs.

I’ve seen Uggs.

I’ve seen Converse.

I’ve seen big-ass Demonia platform boots with huge chains, buckles, and spikes. 💀 For the goth punk/goth/emo vibe.

I’ve seen maxi dresses girly sandals.

I’ve also seen some girls wear a chunky oversized sweater from the thrift store, and they were literally dressed like a librarian. I actually LOVE this look. 😂👩🏻‍🏫

I was just wondering what you typically wear GOING IN TO WORK, and if it has made a difference for you.

Is it acceptable to wear whatever you want?

It depends on my mood, how I am feeling, what is going on, and honestly, what clean clothes I have available at the time.

Sometimes I will wear pajamas/lounge wear to work…

Some girls do the gym hottie/active/athletic look…

Some people wear those FashionNova bodysuits/romper things…

Some girls wear parkas/down puffer jackets…

Some girls dress like they’re going to a concert: crop top and denim shorts.

The woman named “Dime” from the TV reality show “Beyond The Pole” even said she wears nurse’s scrubs to the club. Which I thought was hilarious. (And actually pretty smart.)

Sometimes I just wear a cute, casual outfit like a velour tracksuit or Adidas track pants, or a simple top & jeans.

(Do you guys remember when those KAPPA trackpants and slides used to be popular? I feel like I never see them anymore. Guess they were only trendy for a minute, lol.)

Other days I will “dress up” a little more, like a bottle girl or a waitress for example (bustier top, push up bra, low-cut, something tight & sexy, usually all black.)

I think for safety purposes it is a good idea to dress down. For walking home at night, driving, parking garage/parking lot, public transit… and things like that.

One of my go-to outfits is a button-down blouse, and some black pants (trousers/jeggings type of pants). This way, I still feel relatively comfortable and put-together, I can blend in almost any environment, and I am usually less likely to get harassed this way (although they do still TRY ME). When I dress this way, I think I look: (1) academic; (2) “preppy;” or (3) “working-class.”

I think wearing ALL-BLACK, is also a safe choice.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with sweatpants, and I do wear them a lot of the time, but yoga pants looks a little bit cuter/classier.

Honestly just wear whatever you like and what makes you feel comfortable/practical, or for what you have planned that night/day. Wear what flatters you or wear what you feel good in…

At this point in my life, I have pretty much outgrown wearing AliExpress bodycon dresses and club dresses and kitten heels…

I don’t want to deal with street harassment. I already feel super paranoid and anxious at it is, and I am CONSTANTLY considering my personal safety.

I honestly feel like a two-piece set and some sneakers/comfortable walking shoes, is a perfectly acceptable going-to-work fit.

One of my favorite looks, is when girls do a BIG OVERSIZED THROWBACK BAND T-SHIRT (it’s usually Aliyah, or Tupac, or Selena, or a death metal band of some kind). Basically the t-shirt dress. This look is soo cool and sexy to me…

Or anything y2k, I just live for the aesthetic.

Along these same lines, I am also a fan of the “fresh clubbing” aesthetic (when the male patrons come in wearing big tees and crew necks from brands like VLONE and PALM ANGELS). But usually only the fuckboys wear this. (If I can find a knockoff, or a used one, then I’d like to try this look. I am not paying $100 for a minimalist t-shirt, you got me fucked up…) Younger dudes don’t typically fuck with me. My client base is more… professional guys, nerdy guys, guys that look like they could be in a band, drunk guys, normie looking guys, traveling business men, middle-aged men, or married men. Hu$tlers/dope boys/trap guys also fuck with me, but not as often.

I also love it when guys wear dad hats and trucker hats and graphic tees, usually with writing on the back. And it always has something like “MAN CAVE BREWING CO.” on it or something like that. Oh! And guys with tattoos. (Sorry, now I’m horny…) 🙊

But I have even worn a sundress jean jacket to work. It depended on weather, how I was feeling that day, if I had my period or not, what the season was, what the vibe was, if I had any plans BEFORE or AFTER my shift such as going to a diner or a concert… etc.

I think a ZIP-UP hoodie or jacket is also a great idea because it won’t fuck up your hairstyle (if you did something really glam, like curled your hair or put rollers in, for example).

Just wanted to know your opinions, and if what I’m doing is “standard/normal.”

Are you a fashionista? Or do you dress for comfort/activity?

I feel like people definitely treat me better when I put more effort into my appearance/presentation.

But then I also kind of feel like it doesn’t really matter that much at the end of the day, because we are just going to change into stripper dancewear and lingerie & heels, once we get there… 🤔

Sorry, I’m probably overthinking this. I have a really overly analytical mind!

FASHION RANT OVER

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