Yesterday I landed a position with a good salary and benefits and I’m very grateful; however it’s in another city and I need to be able to get a car within a month … I’ve been in constant survival mode being in an environment I don’t feel comfortable in because I’m being controlled by a man that doesn’t claim me .. my move in is contingent on my dominion bill being paid off . So I’ve been hustling trying to get everything accounted for . The guy I’m staying with is very controlling and is starting to leech off of me , I’m finding myself paying for all meals , necessities for the BOTH of us . Often times he’ll get jealous and make weird comments or be in secret competition with me , or he’s just straight up miserable and self deflects … I’m drained and I cannot thrive in an environment like this although I’m trying to be patient. I was thinking of just getting a room until I can move in . One of my customers offered to co-sign a car for me ; I’d have to pay my own down payment ofc . He gifted me some Prada perfumes last night as a congratulatory gift and mentioned “ I’ll just buy the car for you , for real , I know you need it for work“ …. I considered it but I do not like accepting offers like that at all . I told him I’d pay him back if he just pays the down payment ; but I’d have to think about it .