tonight an Asian chick crossed the room and came all the way over to where I was sitting and said “my husband wants a lap dance with you!!”

as I took the husband to the back, the lady and the other girl (friend) were kind of giddy and nervous/giggling, it was actually kind of cute…

I don’t know why, but that like * MADE * my night. 😂😂😂

It really did something for my ego.

That was the only action I got for several hours, mind you it was very slow up until this point…

Asian people are usually very reserved, so I think the fact that she was bold enough to come all the way over to me, and request me for her man, was really surprising. (And I was definitely flattered by the gesture!)

(I’m mixed/black, I have big curly hair, and I am one of the only women of color at my club.)

They went on to say I have one of the better bodies in the club, compared to some of the other girls. And again, that just made my ego soar through the roof, because I have been struggling a lot with insecurity and low self-esteem lately… 😊😌🥰

It felt really good to be validated, I guess…

Guys, this is why I say — and this is why I believe — “IT ONLY TAKES ONE.”

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Unfortunately, he enjoyed his one dance so much, that he wanted to take me to VIP, but the wife wouldn’t let him.

She pretty much cut him off / COCKBLOCKED!! 🙅🏻‍♀️

LMAOO 😂😅🤣

Dealing with couples in the club is always an interesting experience.

I twerked on him/threw that ass back for dayyyys, lol, which is probably not the experience he’s used to getting at home (they looked pretty vanilla/square), so it was pretty funny to see his reaction. He was really into it and his eyes were all wide. He wanted to keep going, if it weren’t for the simple fact that the wifey cut him off. HAHAHA! 😅🤣😂