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I put on another girl and we got an hour room with a heterosexual couple, a husband and wife. Danced on the wife the switched with the husband. The husband proceeded to put 5 huge lines of coke on the table.

I don’t do coke, my trick is too swipe the line away while hunched over with my hand and it goes on the floor. So I did this but now dealing with a super coked out husband who kept whispering in my ear begging me to touch the other dancer.

So, I go up to the other girl and said do you want to pretend and play around? I like occasionally play or give a dance to another girl- I sometimes shake my head in a circular motion over the crouch but like 4 inches away — the hair all over the place to just look fun. Anyway she said no sternly to my offer to dance on her and got really silent and weird after I suggested touching her, so I just went back to yapping and managing sir cokehead and told him sorry she’s not into that. The room was over shortly after and She ran away after the room finished without asking for a tip. I stayed and got one from the couple after she ran.

So now the next day I am pulled aside by the manger saying I was “too sexually aggressive” for asking her to dance on her. I asked if I did anything wrong in particular and that was it. Ok? I asked and she said no. That is that. And fair! I was trying to really buy time away from cokehead. But according to her asking for consent was already too far. I think this complaint is downright silly, to be honest, and a bit homophobic. (I’m a bi but not out in the club).

But be careful who you put on. Never know if dance buddy is actually completely repulsed by your presence.

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Part of our jobs is touching eachother in the rooms. She must be a green bean.

sapphic activity can be an aspect of our job. Idk why she is acting like shocked pikachu for me asking to dance on her. I assumed giving her the power to say no would be enough but now I am the creep.

Part of our jobs is touching eachother in the rooms. She must be a green bean.

sapphic activity can be an aspect of our job. Idk why she is acting like shocked pikachu for me asking to dance on her. I assumed giving her the power to say no would be enough but now I am the creep.

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Yeah she is over once she snitched 😂

Fr. Just leave her to be broke and maintain your peace.

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Yeah she is over once she snitched 😂

Fr. Just leave her to be broke and maintain your peace.

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Yeah the coke was 100 percent fine lol and she actually didn’t mention it to manager 😭

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That is why I ask for consent.

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It was awkward but would you have told your manager about her moaning? No

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I never got in trouble for asking for consent, she must have misheard me.

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To think about it I think I am the only one who danced on the wife. She just sat next to and spoke to her.

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Probably, but she could have went to me to clarify i just wanted to dance on her. She immediately assumed. I left her alone completely after she said no.

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Each to own, I make it look very fake / exaggerated with the hair flip and it is a move incorporated in my female-based lapdance. I usually do that and then transition to a straddle lapdance, then ask if I can touch the woman’s hair or shoulders. But this is why I ask for consent before initiating a dance and go through each step. No ones pants are off.

Edit! Found the dance move I am talking about on youtube. Go to 14 seconds on this male stripper video. I do this move but instead of a straight line down the torso I go up, pausing for a second above the crouch and flip my hair, then continue going up into the lap. That is the extent of the simulation.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggg4Qsavaas&pp=ygUXTWFsZSBzdHJpcHBlciBsYXAgZGFuY2U=

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I would say it (the dance move in the youtube video) is pretty intimate. I wouldn’t do it to a dude with the concern he would push my head down. But I do this move for the ladies all the time.

Yeah she is over once she snitched 😂

Fr. Just leave her to be broke and maintain your peace.

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I would say it (the dance move in the youtube video) is pretty intimate. I wouldn’t do it to a dude with the concern he would push my head down. But I do this move for the ladies all the time.

Each to own, I make it look very fake / exaggerated with the hair flip and it is a move incorporated in my female-based lapdance. I usually do that and then transition to a straddle lapdance, then ask if I can touch the woman’s hair or shoulders. But this is why I ask for consent before initiating a dance and go through each step. No ones pants are off.

Edit! Found the dance move I am talking about on youtube. Go to 14 seconds on this male stripper video. I do this move but instead of a straight line down the torso I go up, pausing for a second above the crouch and flip my hair, then continue going up into the lap. That is the extent of the simulation.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggg4Qsavaas&pp=ygUXTWFsZSBzdHJpcHBlciBsYXAgZGFuY2U=

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I would say it (the dance move in the youtube video) is pretty intimate. I wouldn’t do it to a dude with the concern he would push my head down. But I do this move for the ladies all the time.

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Each to own, I make it look very fake / exaggerated with the hair flip and it is a move incorporated in my female-based lapdance. I usually do that and then transition to a straddle lapdance, then ask if I can touch the woman’s hair or shoulders. But this is why I ask for consent before initiating a dance and go through each step. No ones pants are off.

Edit! Found the dance move I am talking about on youtube. Go to 14 seconds on this male stripper video. I do this move but instead of a straight line down the torso I go up, pausing for a second above the crouch and flip my hair, then continue going up into the lap. That is the extent of the simulation.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggg4Qsavaas&pp=ygUXTWFsZSBzdHJpcHBlciBsYXAgZGFuY2U=

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I would say it (the dance move in the youtube video) is pretty intimate. I wouldn’t do it to a dude with the concern he would push my head down. But I do this move for the ladies all the time.

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