I see girls post occasionally talking about dancing for private parties. From my experience it’s NEVER worth it. I’m going to share two of my own horror stories, other members please feel free to share yours in the comments as well.

Story 1 — I was a baby stripper dancing at small town club, when two of my older friends from the same club invited me to dance for bachelor party with them. We all drove an hour there, set up a pole while the men bitched and complained saying shit like we should just “dance on the table” and were already being weird and hostile. I told my friends I wasn’t comfortable with the energy, but I rode with them and they wanted to stay so I was stuck. Anyways, we ended up being there for several hours and barely left with $400 apiece. During that time, the girls got completely naked when we agreed to topless only — and were literally eating each other out on the floor in the room full of men. The whole time I was so confused and didn’t understand why the fuck they were doing this because the men had already thrown all the money they had to give. I just stood there because I wasn’t comfortable with the situation. When I was dancing for another guy, he violently grabbed the crotch of my underwear and yanked them to the side with no warning. He was visibly angry and confused when I got freaked out and told him to stop. The entire night was a mess and none of these men even had real money. By the end of the night, both of the girls were in a bed, taking turns getting eaten out by one of the oldest nastiest guys. It was fucking disgusting. On the way home I mentioned I would not be doing anymore private parties and they told me I would’ve made more money if I didn’t ask so “stuck up” LMAO. Yeah they can keep that money.

Story 2 — this is not my story, but it was my close friend at the time. Thankfully I wasn’t there. Her and some other dumb girls went to a private party to dance for guys who were honestly sketchy/hoodrats. I was invited too but immediately said no once they mentioned who it was for. I don’t know what she was thinking or why she believed they could afford that in the first place. For whatever reason she decided to bring $600 in her purse and leave it upstairs while they were dancing for the guys downstairs. I guess one of the guys money came up missing and he decided to go upstairs and go through everyone’s bags looking for it. He stole her $600 claiming it was his, and they ended up getting into a full-blown physical fight over it which ended with her having a gun pulled on her. Not only did she not get paid, she got robbed. Keep in mind this girl isn’t the brightest, she’s already been shot once over a bag of weed and literally has a bullet permanently lodged in her. I’m not friends with her anymore because of the kinds of people she hangs out with — and the fact that this kind of dangerous drama seemed to be a common occurrence in her life. That entire night she was only supposed to make $500 in the first place. SMH.

I will never work another private party again in my life. I can literally go to the club and make more money on a bad night. Please share your stories! IMO a private party should never be priced at less than 1k per girl. These dudes want a VIP experience they can’t afford and will literally try to assault you over a few hundred dollars. The risk is not worth the reward.