just a rant because im soooo fkn irritated . i work with this girl and i have for a while, we always say hi and we are nice to each other, just like work acquaintances. A couple months ago she was giving me dirty looks and so I just pulled her to the side and asked her if there was an issue and she said no and then afterwards she was always really nice. anyways. My club is kind of cutthroat and a lot of girls have pimps, and it's normal for the bar to be lined up with them, They kind of just sit there buying girls drinks or working the girls that they have in the club. They will never go for dances, but they will buy lots of drinks so girls just talk to them for a couple minutes to get a shot and leave (including me Lmao). anyways, this girl has a pimp and its just common knowledge, not my business and to each their own. BUT TELL ME HOW last night I was really drunk and I was in this separate bathroom area with one of my friends and she comes in and asks my friend to leave so she can talk to me privately, so I'm like okay what's up, and she starts asking me if I have a man (meaning a pimp) and I'm just like nah, starts asking me if i live alone whatever whatever and then she starts telling me I was talking to her pimp tonight but she cant tell me who blah blah blah and I was like OK cool I don't know who he is but I was using him for drinks and then she starts saying be careful that's dangerous and me and her kind of started arguing and I told her what I do isnt her business whatever, she can hand her $$ to who she wants and then she starts telling me about how great he is how I should talk to him and I stopped her and told her I make my money and I'm very financially stable i have no need for her pimp and she just kept going on and on about how she sees I make money and that that's why she's talking to me because she thinks he could be good for me whatever. this convo dead lasted like 15 min of her trying to coerce me. I don't remember everything that I said after that but I kind of just cussed her out and left. 🤷🏽‍♀️ now that I'm sober and more clearheaded in the morning, I'm actually so mad and I don't know if I should press her about it tonight lol (EDIT- just to put out there I'm the youngest person in the club (I'm 19) and I'm one of the higher earners so im used to the pimps themselves targeting me, but I've never had a girl try that! im like wtf)